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Updated: June 11, 2009, 12:17 pm

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This Week's Issues: Style, Dating, And Charities

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The fabulous fiery redhead Jill Zarin, of Bravo TV's "The Real Housewives of New York City", will be bringing you her pearls of wisdom each week here at Hamptons.com. Got a question about style and fashion, dating and relationships, hot spots in the Hamptons or NYC, and the second season of the hit show? Just ask Jill!

Look fabulous and support one of Jill's favorite charities with a "Team Jill" tank
available on her website. Photo by A. Scott

You have great style. What should I pick up this season so I look great at all those summer parties? - Claire M. of Southampton, NY
 • The most important thing to looking great is feeling great. A hot shower, moisturize your skin a few times, fresh makeup and hair, and a cat nap before getting dressed always works for me. (That means shutting off the phone and turning on the music). So after you are all rested and fresh, finding the right outfit - first, are you inside or outside? If you are going to be on grass, the best foot solution is a great wedge. Tory Burch has a nice one but there are lots to choose from this season. Don't wear heels in the grass. It's just not worth ruining a good pair of shoes and you want to be comfortable standing for two hours don't you? Always bring a sweater or shawl in the car just in case. There are three basic body types and some people who are one type dress as another. Know what looks good. My secret? I take a digital picture and then look at it. What you see in the mirror is not always a true reflection of how you look. Cameras don't lie.

You do so much charity work. What's coming up next for you and the causes you support? - Crissy H. of New York, NY
 • I am working with Sarah Ehrlich of Help for Orphans again this summer. We don't have a date finalized but I hope to have that wrapped up soon! This fall, I am planning to have an event at a friend's home for something related to arthritis and helping children. I like to do that to save money and give the majority of what is raised to the cause we're supporting. We have to remember that we are raising money for a cause, not throwing a wedding! (But I promise - we will have the best time). Go to my website www.jillzarin.com for more details on these and other organizations.

I loved watching the show - how much was really "real" and will you be filming in the Hamptons this summer? - Nicole G. of Palm Beach, FL
 • Many people ask me if the show is real. It is definitely REAL. The feelings are real. We each film about one to three days a week and some of the scenes are planned so we are grouped together but all the conversations are real. I believe that even after editing, if you watch the entire series, we are each portrayed very accurately. The show has been renewed for a second season. Filming should begin in the Hamptons as early as the end of June. If you have a business you want me to visit or products you want me to try or use you can contact me through askjill@hamptons.com. We will be shopping, eating and attending charities and parties. Of course we are always looking for fun activities for the kids too. If you see me around town - please say Hi!

Where is the best place to meet men in the Hamptons? - Liza A. of Westbury, NY
 • Funny you would ask me of all the housewives. Do I give off a vibe? Just kidding. Honestly, I only have eyes for my honey but if I was forced to look - I think a casual social event. I hate the "bar scene." I think it is too obvious. I lean towards an event like polo as a great place to meet lots of new people.


The fabulous fiery redhead Jill Zarin, of Bravo TV’s “The Real Housewives of New York City”, will be bringing you her pearls of wisdom each week here at Hamptons.com. Got a question about style and fashion, dating and relationships, hot spots in the Hamptons or NYC, and the second season of the hit show? Just ask Jill! Please email questions for Jill via askjill@hamptons.com. Be sure to include your name, city, and state.



Comments

Joan from Miami says:
Jill, Love the show When can we expect seasons 1 and 2 on DVD?

MaryAnn Lindquist from rhinebeck newyork says:
Jill I think you're the greatest.I've watched the show, and out of everyone you by far are the most intelligent and grounded. I want to ask you that if I were to come into the city to go to you're fabric store,what would be the chances of meeting you?

Mimi from Galveston, Tx. says:
Jill, I love that you advised your daughter to make sure the man she ends up with, loves her just a little bit more. This is so true!

Terri from Oceanside, CA says:
Jill, I'm dying to know...what's your "grandmother" name? I am dealing with this issue now with a 20 month old who is calling me "A-me" (We don't know why)for the lack of any other name! Nanny and Nana are already taken in our family. I'm too young for "Gramma or any 'Gran' type of name" Any suggestions?

Jena from New City, NY says:
Great pic!! You look amazing!

heidi from woodbride says:
love the show on bravo jill.....you look great. have you lost weight?

traci from southampton , ny says:
i think you rock jill your the only one on your show thats "real" rock on mama

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