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Updated: September 28, 2009, 12:14 pm |
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Stacey Reister seen here with members of her family and friends at the arraignment for Anthony Oddone more than a year ago. Photo by Kelly Carroll |
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Andrew Reister died Aug. 9, 2009. |
Very sad
from Local says:
Yeah..I'd say he made a tragic mistake...he murdered a
human being... the father of two little kids. How can you
say he is a "truly great person and friend" ? He is a
person with major major rage issues. Great you say?? I
say evil...
TZ
from Orange County, NY says:
I grew up next to
Anthony. He dated my
best friend all
through High School.
I know his family.
He truly is a great
person and friend
who made a tragic
mistake
Very sad
from Local says:
You know...you are making this sound like a "we
win...you lose" situation"..Like Anthony is gonna win
this case. Ok...suppose he does...or suppose he
doesn't...what does it really matter to the Reister
family....They LOST...they LOST big time. David and
Mary Grace lost their Daddy. Halina and George lost
their son. A Daddy and a Son are not replacable. No
matter what Oddone gets...the Reister family LOST!!
And..I wonder if Oddone has a conscience...will it
matter to him at all?? Or will he go out and party
someday when he is free. I hope he is never free of
guilt..I hope he carries that burden with him to the day
he dies...and I hope he pays then too!
And...I wonder if Oddone's mother is crying the tears
of pain like Andrew's mother is!!!
henry
from westchester says:
We can all sit here
and say we feel
sorry for
everyone...but we
all know the
truth....bouncers
must be scum bags to
effectively do their
job...It was his
choice to be a
bouncer, which is a
dangerous
profession...I mean
are there no chances
of fighting? no
there's not...If you
are a librarian...or
a teacher..or a
banker... there's
relatively no chance
for fighting... but
when you are a
bouncer you take
that risk...so that
was the first
mistake....then when
you throw someone
off a table...I am
sure that person
will defend
themselves...and
this is what
happened...factors
such as
misrepresentation by
the publick house
will hurt the
prosecutions case (
not wearing any
identifying
shirts)....The
prosecution will not
convince the jury of
Intentional murder,
which is
ludicrous..but they
have a chance to
convince the jury
that this is
manslaughter...however,
if the assistant DA
continues the way
she did as in her
opening statement,
which turned the
jury against her, (
i was there), they
could end up losing
this case all
together . I am
sure you can all
tell that I am a
friend of tony's,
but i do believe he
should pay his debt
to society, which he
is doing and will
do...but it should
not, and will not be
life in prison. It
will be a couple or
a few years..hes
already done 14
months...
CK
from Long Island says:
Oh yeah. Tony is such a great guy. Give me a break.
Great people don't choke others to death and than flee
in a taxi. The simple fact that he fled shows that he
knew exactly how wrong his actions were. A great guy
would stay around and try to help the person he just
choked to death. Your boy Tony has been in similar
bar situations in the past like breaking a bottle over
someone's head which by the way can also kill
someone! Obviously Tony has a problem with his
temper and because of that fact it cost Mr. Reister his
life. Maybe where you come from Tony type people are
good people but where the majority of us come from
he is a dirt bag murderer who took the life of a decent
man who was out trying to earn extra money for his
family NOT out drinking and acting like an idiot. A
dangerous idiot at that. We don't know what we're
talking about? You do? Were you one of his friends
that didn't pull this idiot off of a man he was choking
to death. If so than you are as much to blame and if
not than shut up because YOU don't know what you're
talking about!
DH
from Suffolk says:
I think it is horrible what some people are
writing you have no idea how it has changed
everyone who was involved lives and its not
your right to pass judgement on anyone you
don't know, Tony was a great person and our
hearts do go out to the family of andrew and
the grief that everyone is feeling this is a
horrible situation for all, but for some
people to talk when there hasn't even been a
trial yet and he IS presumed INNOCENT until
PROVEN guilty and most people who are writing
don't even know the facts, and were not there
at the time of the incident its just crazy to
me that people can even say anything, no one
is taking in to account Andrews actions or
character bc of the position he held as his
profession. its not fair and all of your
people should just back off bc tony is a good
person too with family and friends who are
also going through a lot. no one wanted to be
in this position its a horrible situation but
it does take two people for this to come about
NOT just tony and using Andrews kids to make
people feel worse and sympathetic is horrible
he knew the position he took with the job
which so many ppl claim is why he's such a
great person, well tony has a family too and
everyone should just shut up bc you are only
making matters worse and the grief for
everyone involved harder on both sides! May
Andrew rest in peace and tony be allowed a
FAIR trial!
CK
from Long Island says:
Just because "big tone" was a supposed good person
doesn't make him any less responsible and he must
pay the price. If "big tone" had not murdered Andrew
that night and instead drove away from that bar drunk
and murdered a young child while dwi would he still
be this great guy that some claim he is? The man
murdered someone. I have very intoxicated and have
never thought of choking someone to death and than
kicking him in the head while he lays on the floor. "Big
tone" didn't like that he was told to chill in front of his
female friends and so he had to prove his manhood.
Well he proved it and now he must pay the price. And
so "big tone" I hope the rest of your days are spent in
a jail cell. Andrew you are in my prayers as well as
your brave wife and children.
Henry
from westchester says:
I bet he gets off
with maybe some
probation...and some
fines....but there
will be no lengthy
jail time. He will
end up in a
management position
at the fancy golf
club in 3- 5
years.....
andrew
from LI says:
There is no excuse for what Anthony did that
night. We all make some bad decisions, but as
an adult you are ultimately responsible for
your actions. That night it could have been
anyone crossing his path, unfortunately it was
Andrew. Anthony needs to pay for what he did.
Andrew left behind a wife and two beautiful
children that will have to live their lives
without him. God bless Andrew and may you
rest in peace..
ann
from eastern suffolk says:
should Oddone's life end because of this
mistake? should the bouncer's life have ended
at the publick house that night?
i agree with one of "bolt's" points: the
publick house in southampton should be held
liable. if indeed "Tone" is as outstanding as
he's described, then the publick house should
pay.
Big E
from Long Island says:
Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Reister
Family and Tony...nobody wins in this situation
mike
from NY says:
My thoughts and prayers are with everyone
involved. It is a terrible tragedy all
around. Although most of you dont care to know
that some of us were good friends with Tony, I
was. I knew tony as a smart student, great
teammate, honest and respectful person, and
most of all a great friend. Unfortunately
good people can do stupid things when booze is
involved and many lives have been changed
forever bc of it. My thoughts and prayers are
with the Reister family and my thoughts and
prayers are also with my friend Tony
Local Teacher
from Southampton says:
The next time Joe from New York feels bad
for 'Big Tone' he should stop by the Reister's
house and see Andrew's 2 kids going through
their life without their father. That's
pain 'Big Tone' can't know. It's up to the
justice system now to come up with a
punishment. Although, whatever that punishment
is, it won't bring back their Dad and Stacey's
husband. 'Big Tone's' responsible for that and
now he has to face his own music.
bolt
from eh says:
the bar should be held liable for letting him
get so intoxicated and he should be found
guilty of homicide. andrew was doing his job
and now his kids have no father. this guy
better not walk, but its the hamptons and
money and connections go a long way. everybody
is a nice guy until they do something like
this. r.i.p. andrew
Seth
from New York, New York says:
First let me say that it is sad and
unfortunate to see what has happened to Andrew
Reister, his family and friends. I met Anthony
back in 2003 while I was a freshman at SUNY
Cobleskill and had the privilege to live
across the hall from him for a year. While
going away to college for the first time can
make one nervous, Anthony was really the first
uppser classman to welcome me in and I will
always remember that. Some may not like him
for whatever reasons but I have to say
everyone of those people would tell you that
Anthony would never kill someone. Obviously
alcohol can make some people do some bad
things including murder, I really don't think
Anthony was capable of this. Anyways my heart
goes out to everyone involved and my thoughts
will be with you.
joe
from NY says:
I really feel bad
for Big Tone, he
would never
intentionally kill
someone. overall he
was a good kid who
liked to go out, and
have a good time.
Big Tone I'm hoping
all goes alright...
Kathy
from Springs says:
It could happen to ANYBODY mix booze in a
heightened situation, just thank GOD it wasn't
YOUR son...or husband
Everyone has a history..no matter how patient
or gentle....or how big theyre smile is,,
family, friends, and no matter what good you
do...EVERYONE is affected by Booze. How about
serving some coffee or soda... if theyre that
drunk, would they really know the difference???
WHO IS TO BLAME?? DRINKERS? POURERS? PEACE
OFFICERS? too quick to judge...if it were
your kid............
Devon
from Suffolk says:
He would do anything
to help you, it was
just his way and
faith. God bless him
and his wife and
Children.
John From LI
from LI says:
I knew Andrew; he was a gentle patient man.
Not hands on kind of CO--he worked in rehab
unit. The picture you printed is the
personification of what he was--that big
smile. I hope and pray that his tragic
death is paid for by 'the guilty party'.
Nothing will bring him back, but the
penultimate duty of any municipality is to
protect people from those who would
lash out irrationally.
John From Long Island; SCSO retired
IPA Member Region #15
“Man is a marvelous curiosity. When he is at
his very, very best he is a sort of low grade
nickel-plated angel; at his worst he is
unspeakable, unimaginable; and first and last
and all the time he is a sarcasm.”
Mark Twain
henry from westchester says:
I'll tell ya why TZ can say something like that, because its true. Tony did a lot of great things for me. He was a good guy back in college when I hung around with him. But I shouldn't even be saying this because both parties naturally are going to say " oh he was such a nice guy or what ever"...of course both the victim and defendant were nice guys. What matters now is our American justice system...what ever happens in there is the final answer...both parties are going to have to move on after this is all over