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Added: June 16, 2009

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Let's Talk Chocolates, Houseguest Gifts And Tennis Matches

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Jill Zarin - busy as ever! Photo courtesy of Google Images

Southampton - Hi everyone! Wow, is it summer yet? I am still working harder than I ever have and need to come to The Hamptons so badly I can smell the ocean in my sleep. What have you been doing? I have no idea. Well actually...working. Last weekend we were in Atlantic City at the Chelsea Hotel for an apperance at the Hilton Hotel. Bethenny, Alex and Simon were hired to do a Q & A and about 500 people showed up. I had no expectations but had the best weekend. We arrived Friday night and ran to see Kathy Griffin at the Borgotta. I absolutely adore her. I even tried to sell tee-shirts for her in the lobby. Long story but funny! Saturday we stayed by our pool with Simon and Alex and tried to relax. Saturday night we were at the Hilton and I hit a $1,250 slot in a $25 machine. After putting back some we netted about $500. We left early Sunday morning for home to get ready for the Tony Awards at Radio City Music Hall.

I wore a Marc Bouwer Gown and Jeri Cohen Jewelry. I felt like a princess. This was my first Tony Awards show so I have nothing to compare it to but it was amazing. All the performances were outstanding and there was huge star power in the room. We are seeing Fleetwood Mac at MSG this week and I will give you details later. This weekend we head to Florida to see Sol for his birthday. I am leaving all electronics home to save my mind from turning into jello. Allyson is taking her ACT test this Saturday and has been preparing for it all week.

I have been watching the Real Housewives of New Jersey and this week was a little slow. I have a horrible memory and since I really can't remember too much from it I don't think there was alot of drama. I know there will be drama next week so watch out! I have to give full disclosure to you. Last night I had dinner with Vicki from OC, Dina, Caroline and Theresa from NJ. We had a really fun time and got to know each other. Now that I met them - it is hard to be impartial. I will say that Danielle is really nuts and did some horrific things to some of them recently. I hope it all calms down.

Thank you for writing in to me and here we go!

Hi Jill: I heard you on your sister's show talking about Xocai Choclates. Which Xocai chocolate product in particular do you believe helps you get "regular" and lose weight? Thanks, Kristen

Dear Kristen: Thank you so much for listening to Lisa's show! I would order the new Probotic for the "regular" issue. It really does work! Go to www.jillzarinchocolate.com or email me your info and I can have someone contact you.

Have a great summer!

Jill

Hi Jill: Huge fan of the show - you are my favorite "housewife." I have no idea if you or your assistant will email back, but I certainly hope you will! I have a friend who lives in a penthouse in Manhattan who also has a home in East Hampton. She's 36 with three children and is married to a very successful "financial dude." (I quote that tongue and cheek because I have no idea what he really does but he's in the financial sector).

She's invited me and my family (my husband and two children) to her summer home in the Hamptons in August. I would like to send her or bring her a gift as a token of our appreciation, but I'm stuck on ideas.

HISTORY: My relationship with her is unique. We grew up in the same hometown and went to high school together - friends all throughout. Then we didn't speak until we ran into each other at a mutual friend's wedding and reaquainted. We stayed in touch through email (very infrequent reach-outs), but when I visted NY for work I would connect with her. Long story short - we have this very distant relationship - no strings attached. And, I think she likes that (as do I). I'm not a needy friend. I haven't seen her in two years, and since her invitation we've only exchanged brief emails.

Well - got any ideas? How do I say "thank you" for her generosity? My husband and I are successful (live in the North Shore in Chicago) but not her level of "successful."

Thanks for your reply Jill!


Dear Friend in the Hamptons: You didn't really say how long you would be staying. Since you think a monetary gift is meaningless, then consider buying all the food ingredients and cooking a great meal for them. Everyone loves to BBQ in the Hamptons and it is a genrous gesture.

Jill

Dear Jill: This tennis match is becoming a regular thing between you and Ramona, and after watching one of your fundraising meeting for your daughter's arthritis charity I though, how about doing a public match between the two of you and sell tickets? I know I'd pay to come watch you drag out Simon again! HA! HA! ). Take care!

Shelley O, Jacksonville, FL


Dear Shelly: Not a bad idea. I suppose if someone did organize it for us I could convince her. Maybe next season!

Thank you.

Jill

The fabulous fiery redhead Jill Zarin, of Bravo TV’s “The Real Housewives of New York City,” will be bringing you her pearls of wisdom here at Hamptons.com. Got a question about style and fashion, dating and relationships, hot spots in the Hamptons or NYC, and the second season of the hit show? Just ask Jill! Please email questions for Jill via askjill@hamptons.com. Be sure to include your name, city, and state.



Comments

Guest (Dawn) from Richfield, Mn says:
Hi Jill, l love reading what you have to say from life to fashion as you are as honest as the day is long. You are the classiest lady and have made a beautiful home for your lovely family. Out of all the housewives from all the shows you are truely the one who has it going on. Glad I found a place to send you a note at 58 got started late with this tech stuff! lol Honored to have been able to chat with you. Dawn

Guest (Stephanie ) from Charleston, SC says:
Hi Jill! You are my favorite housewife, by far! My father and I are huge fans of the show! Which is funny, because my dad is a big burly man from SC. We were actually in Southampton this weekend catering for the Love Heals party at the Polish Hall. My father specializes in southern cuisine, aka BBQ! We've been coming to the Hamptons for over 10 years for the Love Heals event. We heard Romana was there but sad to hear you weren't. If you're ever in need of a great caterer for true Southern BBQ...look us up at www.deforestgibbs.com! Take care and thanks for keeping things classy! Several of the Housewives need to take a lesson from you on how to be a lady!

Guest (Marina) from NJ says:
Hi Jill, Love you! You're one of my favorites on "NY housewives", tho' the NJ version is not far behind. Both are great - hope they keep the show running which I absolutely love.

Guest (Daphnie) from Gin Lane, Southampton says:
Jill, My entire family is crazy about you - I love your wardrobe and your scene of style is leading edge. Thank you for your frankness and honesty. My favorite HW group is Atlanta, they really have it going on, don't you think?

Guest (Anita Rogers) from Jackson, MS says:
Hey Jill - Out of all the Housewives shows New York and New Jersey are my favorites and out of all the housewives, you, Teresa, Dina and Bethany are my faves. You with the work you do with your charities, Teresa her personality I love and the way she is with her 3 little girls and Dina how smart she is and the way she is with her daughter, the comrodity they have with each other is priceless. Bethany, her energy. I wish I had an ouce of it. The others well I really shouldn't even think about getting started. Anyway I love the shows, have a get summer in the Hamptons with your family and friends and I can't wait until next season.

Guest (nancy) from Hartselle, Alabama says:
Jill, just wanted to tell you, like everyone else, you are the real deal. You and I like to tell people the truth, sometimes they don't like it, but why lie about things. We tell it like it is, and if you don't like it, sorry. I have watched all the Housewives series, and by far, you are my favorite. In fact, if we lived in the same city, and knew each other, we would be best friends, rock the town, and get into trouble (the good kind). What fun it would be to know you. Thanks for a great series. Can't wait to see the new shows in the fall. Would love to work with you on your charities, I can sell a blind man glasses. Give me a good cause, and I could make it a sellout. E mail me at nancysnotary@yahoo.com if interested.

Guest (Carolena) from Midwest says:
You are such a savvy businesswoman, so I'm surprised that given what's been seen of the NJ wives, you'd accept their comments as 'fact' and present it that way. I think digging up a mother's history from more than 20 years ago and putting it out for public consumption is pretty low. Danielle is a wreck, but she's not living alone in 'crazy town'. Dina and Teresa seem equally problematic - just in different ways.

Guest (Michele) from Nassau County, longIsland says:
Hey Jill, You are by far my favorite house wife. I admire what you do for your events. I started another business early this year, and I was wondering how do I get started in fund raising? I specialize in complete hair loss. We cater to women with Alopecia, Chemotherapy, and Chemical damage. I want women to know it is not the end of the world when they loose their hair.

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